There are certain professions that I equate with a high level of confidence; and heart surgeon (or any type of surgeon), airplane pilots and attorneys are three of the best examples. That BG tried to intimidate this neighbor seems to show a lack of an ability to judge character. Not that it is OK to try this approach with anyone, but this just disappointments me about BG, and I consider myself mostly a positive poster here. Anyway, as you or someone else commented, maybe there is a hope that PO can right this somehow. Thanks for the detailed explanation.