People can say whatever the heck they want about Lori on a private site. It's like me having a group of people over to my house and bad mouth the hell out of her. Also her trying to use private conversations in court off a private web site will not work. It's the same as video taping two people having a conversation that you are not one of the two people. If you record a conversation that you are one of the two people that are talking, you can legally record it without the other persons consent, and possibly use it in court. However if you are a third person that is in the unknown and is not directly in the conversation you can't use the audio to your advantage. This works the same with typed conversations. Lori can't do a darn thing with any conversation she is not involved in directly.