Colder you said and I quote, "But does any of this prevent her from showing up on time, organized, and sober?" What is this business about "sober"? I was not at the meeting but I am not to take you literally am I that you are implying she showed up a little tipsy? You surely didn't mean that to be taken literally. I hope you meant by that term "serious minded." What say you? Were you at the meeting? Remember a lot of us are dealing with total strangers and know nothing about the people we read about never having been within hundreds of miles of them. Also did you consider her "disorganized?" Why or how?