If you think that's grace under fire, consider this story.

Three guys are discussing the definition of "savoir faire" and giving examples of it.

The first guy says savoir faire is when you come home and, in opening the bedroom door you see your wife making love to a stranger, you simply say nothing and close the door.

The next guy says true savoir fare represents much more than that and indicates you should say," excuse me, please continue" and then close the door.

The third guy tells them they're both wrong. After hearing you say, "excuse me, please continue" and he continues....he has savoir faire.