Procite, nobody should be exposed to private messages which disturb them to this point. Please forward the messages you refer to above to me (via PM) and I will deal with the poster in accordance with Agoracom guidelines. I'm assuming it came via the Agoracom PM system, your reference above to private emails is a little confusing. I can't imagine how anyone could get your actual email address unless someone you know passed it on.
Rich