I think it goes both ways... I see hostility on this board for reasons I cannot understand.. Maybe related to the SH forum as you say? Or I think the low prices are starting to weigh on everyone...

In times of conflict it has always been shown that both sides have at one time, committed error. It is never a black and white issue. Better to forget, forgive, and move on. You promote the behavior that you exhibit. I think Sinclair said it best when he posted this story on jsmineset.com quite some time ago:

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people. He said, ‘My son, the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us all.

One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.’

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: ‘Which wolf wins?

The old Cherokee simply replied, ‘The one you feed.’