I Just wanted to thank every one that sent me a PM i am truly overwhelmed by the sheer amount of kind people from our community here on AG the prayers ,kindness ,words of encouragement, offers of help,etc etc, please forgive me for not replying to all in person (i will get around to it) but for now every one please accept my deepest appreciation i have been very humbled by the kindness of your thoughts, .My wife is hanging in she can not talk yet,but i have told her of how many people wish her well and i am sure it does help, i am very sorry about posting on here but it is the best way for me to THANK everyone at the moment,so i hope no one has a problem with this . Don't sweat the small stuff in life ,there will come a time when you realize that it really does not matter,trust me on this ( lol ) as for NOT it is what it is,for now but when she blows there will be no holding it back . sincerely Paul aka bushmills