I must clarify one point you made which, IMHO, is incorrect.

<Now the original post was propogated by Opty.>

Actually, I never got into the discussion between Rebecca and Brian. I only commented on a post made by Ron. I did not think Ron's joining that particular discussion was going to help resolve anything and, more likely than not, make things worse.

<Just stay out of it...>

Yes, I agree. Excellent advice.

Opty