Greeneyes ....I am sorry ! I had no idea what was going on in your personal life and had I realized I like to think I would have refrained from anything that would have caused you further pain. I have never had any negative feelings for you on any level and it hurts to know that anyone would think that I would take advantage of such a situation to cause you additional grief on such a sad occasion. I have two brothers and a sister and I din't want to even think about what it will be like when it is my turn to deal with what you are going through. Again, I am sorry to have upset you and you have my sincere condolences......bartender