"It is only you (and Don) who have spun this to say they didn't opt in because they are waiting to be verified. That's a possibility but it is also possible they will never opt in."

You say we're spinning it? Then your next sentence says it's a possibility. Which is it? And yes you're right it is POSSIBLE they won't opt in. You concluded already that they haven't. You say it's possible they may and possible they won't and conclude they didn't. You are the spinner and confusing one.