Your divorce lawyer had two things going for him: (1) he was in a real court system not arbitration and (2) you were dumb enough to invest in Crystallex! J/K -- I was too, but hindsight is irrelevant and only the future matters in investments/lottery tickets.
On a personal and OT note: If you spent more than $345,000 for attorneys' fees in your divorce and after 2 years and 5 months had to pay a staggering sum, then talk to me about unfair and horrible things, otherwise talk to the hand.
Besides, I can verify what they say is true -- divorce is expensive because it is worth every penny. And, it makes my million and a half shares of Crystallex look like a bargain. LOL