AHHH!! a wise man!!!!!.....always state that her decisions to invest in candles or "improved lifetime warranty" kitchen utensils were an incredible investment and essential to your mutual success.....then say,
"i must dedicate my time to financing your wise decisions".... "please excuse my absence from our household as i must provide the where-with-all to finance your crucial decision making advice" .... "thank you, for sustaining our household....if a chick named theresa calls, tell her i'm on another line and will call her back...thats our banker!!"
cjr advice: your roll is purely fiduciary.....