You come across as believing that child rearing has no real impact on society as a whole. If your icon is anything to go by - the man in your picture was the original host of America's Favourite Video's - he had an affair outside of his marriage and left his wife and three children for the new woman and AFV fired him. By choosing to honour this man by having him as your icon, it speaks to no value for marriage or children. I'll stick with my values, thank you. MTS