Re-read my post, it was only used as an example to make a point. I was talking about perception of opinions and not trying to prove my side at all. Tried to show how different people see things different ways and intetions may no be as you see them - so people won't be demonized for having an opinion. Exactly what you are trying to do to me now for example.

You keep trying to twist this around and make it about me - its not, and you clearly missed my point.

C'est la vie...